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When you stop considering others' feelings, they will start considering yours because they are afraid you'll go crazy. After you go crazy, you'll find that everyone will start to be polite and learn to respect others.

The six truly scarce abilities of the future: 1. Design and aesthetic skills. Not just "good-looking," but the ability to judge what experiences are more comfortable, what expressions are more sophisticated, and what forms better align with human nature. It determines the ultimate feeling of a product, content, or service. In an era of converging functions, aesthetics often become the key differentiator in choices.
2. Storytelling ability. The capacity to transform complex information into an expression that others are willing to understand, believe, and act upon. Whether in business, manage

You need to learn to express your needs to others. Don't be shy, don't be afraid of bothering them. If others don't refuse, then it's their own fault.

Why does society hate people who prefer to be alone? Individualization is a crime against the collective. Society hates loners not because they are pitiful, but because they are dangerous. Only those who are alone can break the collective hypnosis and see the truth.

The Chinese have been lying in the pit dug by Confucianism for thousands of years and have not been able to climb out. Reading was never about learning knowledge, mastering truth, or exploring the mysteries of the universe. Those who read better books participated in the imperial examinations to become officials and be above others. Those who read poorly just scrape by to get by, and that's all. Among people, we have always been unable to learn how to coexist equally. That’s why even today, we still clash with modern civilization. Only by integrating into world civilization can the nation have

When you decide to do it, the hardest part is already over.

If a person truly wants to mature, they must develop a certain ability: the ability to carry unresolved issues and continue moving forward. In psychology, this is called tolerating uncertainty. Often, what really causes you to break down is not the matter itself, but the fact that it has no answer and remains unresolved. The underlying reason is often that a person has been living in an environment without a sense of security for a long time, so they become extremely afraid of unanswered questions because the unknown signifies danger and uncontrollability to their brain. As a result, they tend

Life is not complicated because the core issues that repeatedly arise are limited. No matter how experiences change, most of the concerns ultimately focus on a few stable areas, such as: the influence of the family of origin, one's position and boundaries in interpersonal and intimate relationships, intergenerational roles in parent-child relationships, self-worth and self-identity, emotional regulation abilities, and understanding of the world and life direction. Events will constantly change, but people's psychological structures for handling problems often remain consistent. Therefore, if y

In life, you may have encountered such benefactors. They help you without ever asking for anything in return. Perhaps it's because they see their former selves in you. So you always want to give them what you consider the most important things as a form of gratitude and repayment. It's like a child giving their favorite toy to an adult. To the child, it's the most precious thing; but to the adult, it may not be what they truly need. In fact, true reciprocation doesn't necessarily mean giving the other person what you cherish most, but rather giving them what they genuinely need. Sometimes, tha

Many foreigners doing business in China also can't understand why it's so easy to make money here—just sell genuine products. What they don't realize is, the reason it's so easy to earn money is that locals don't do it, because they don't know that here, being a good person isn't allowed.

Just saw a quote: When I escape from that prison someday, I will grant amnesty to everyone and release all the blacklisted individuals inside.

You don't need anyone's approval, only peace of mind. You can appear easygoing on the outside, but your heart should be as clear as bright water. You can interact with others, but don't be assimilated. You can be passionate about the world, but when it comes to life and death moments, don't hesitate. This is not indifference, but clarity. You need to know what is worth your investment and what is just noise. Living in this world, we often unconsciously cater to others' expectations, afraid of being disliked, afraid of being called out of place, afraid of being labeled as non-conforming. In the

Taoist Emotional Management: I don't really care if others curse me behind my back, because I've cursed quite a few people myself. I might be insincere when praising someone, but when I curse, I am absolutely sincere. Enduring a little longer makes you angrier; stepping back a little makes you feel more亏. Big problems should be minimized, small problems should be ignored, but if you keep化到卵巢叫囊肿,化到乳腺就增生. The Huangdi Neijing has long said that all diseases originate from qi. People with gentle temperaments and weak bodies are more prone to mental internal consumption, which easily leads to qi st

Your reputation in others' mouths is actually only related to their own interests. If you align with their interests, they will praise you, elevate you; if you don't, they will criticize you, suppress you, or even slander you. As long as you understand this, you won't care about how others see you in the future, nor is there any need to seek their praise. The greatest comfort of adulthood is that you never live in others' words. Nice words shouldn't be taken seriously, and harsh words shouldn't be taken to heart. Just be yourself; no one can constrain you.

A person's true ability does not lie in how much knowledge they have mastered, but in the choices they make. Knowledge is just a tool; it cannot determine the direction on its own. What truly determines the course of life are your cognition, judgment, and decision-making skills. How you interpret an event, how you evaluate pros and cons, and how you make trade-offs in uncertainty—these are what constitute core competencies. Looking back on your journey, you'll realize that so-called experiences are actually the result of repeated choices. What major to choose, what job to take, whom to associa

When someone shows you kindness, return kindness. When someone emits malice, respond with malice. Trying desperately to prove yourself good and deserving of kindness to someone who is malicious is the most foolish and draining thing you can do.