You're financially, morally, socially, physique-wise, and spiritually bankrupt. You know it, yet you're still worried about which woman ignored you or doesn't love you nor allow you sex access. That's a misplaced priority bro, forget about woman & sex for now, you'll have lots of that in the future if you decide to be a brostitute. Right now, focus on those areas listed above, build it. The early you start the easier it becomes.

If you ignore it now, in 5 years when you see people who are supposedly your mate by age, you will hide your face in shame.

Not putting you on competitive pressure

But sometimes a body will continue to be at its state of rest until a force act on it.

If peer pressure is the only pressure you need to take your life seriously, then I'm here with endless of it to make sure you wake up.