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It's the weekend, let's talk about something else, so let's discuss cognition and choice!
You want a boy to be handsome, at least the child you give birth to is good-looking. You want a boy to be rich, and the child you give birth to is a rich second generation, and you suffer less from life. If you're just trying to be good for this guy, I'm telling you, if he's good for you today, he'll probably be bad for you tomorrow. We say that a person with high cognition does not choose a person who is good to me, I want to choose a person who is very good in himself, his character is good, his ability is good, his responsibility is good, he is very good, and he is good to me, this is a good partner, because I have the ability to be good to myself. Then a treasure said, of course I want to find such a thing, but others may not choose me. Therefore, people are the exchange of value, and you must always have some value. Being beautiful is a value, gentleness is a value, and a good family background is also a value, what value do you have? You must not think that others don't want you anything, others must want you something! The dog is still comfortable in the sun!
Many people say, you see this girl is really lucky, she found a good husband. You see this guy is so good, he chose a good boss. Do you really think that luck is behind luck? Behind luck is choice, and behind choice is cognition. You see, what determines the choice? Cognition determines choice, so what determines our cognition? Learning and growth determine what we know. Therefore, people must learn for life, and only by learning can they live to old age. When you go through something, you suddenly wake up to the fact that the relationship between people is long-lasting, not based on mutual liking, but on the exchange of values. You have to grow at the same frequency so that you can manage long-term relationships.
Therefore, personal growth is the way to go. When you grow, your abilities and your chips increase, and then you can give to others. Right? If you are nothing and wait for others to love you, wait for others to give you money to spend, do you think you will have a good life like that? So, don't always think about whether others love you; if you are good enough, there will always be someone who loves you. As long as you are not good, those who love you will disappear. Therefore, focus on your own growth, focus on your own chips, focus on your own strength. As long as you have value, someone will love you.