December 29, 2025 - Message: Emotional Self-Help Manual

True love appears initially; let the other person be themselves (methodology explained later).

Topics that humanity cannot avoid: how to be self-consistent in social relationships.

Emotional issues have become one of the most important problems worldwide.

For a long time, I particularly disliked communicating and interacting with people.

Many of you here probably feel the same.

Being highly sensitive is both a gift and a shackle.

One sentence or a glance is enough for me to understand the other person's deep psychological motives.

Once the psychological compensation mechanism is activated, it can be destructive.

Often, in relationships, I exhibit strong aggression, self-defense, or extreme indifference (cold-bloodedness).

It seems like I want to take the initiative in social interactions, but I often push myself into one swamp after another.

Under such a complex cultural background, we little ones have never been "respected."

We have never seen what dignity as a "human" truly means.

Gaining others' respect is an essential life lesson.

The feeling of being respected is hard to describe; once you experience it, you'll understand.

If someone can consider others' feelings during communication, it shows they are strong internally, kind, and gentle.

Mutually understanding each other's expressions, illuminating each other's inner worlds.

It's time to evolve.

Any interaction, choosing to spend this long life together with someone,

not because of their conditions, aura, labels, or wealth, but through slow and meaningful companionship.

When you are self-sufficient, still willing to explore the true meaning of life with this person, expanding the boundaries of life infinitely.

My idea of a quality relationship: it allows you to deeply understand yourself, automatically and voluntarily metabolize the old version of yourself, and manifest anyone you want to become.

It is a wonderful experience of mutual nourishment.

When the golden wind and jade dew meet, it surpasses countless moments in the mortal world.

Finally, the methodology:

1️⃣ When you can't control your emotions and want to vent on the other person in any relationship, take out your diary or phone to record your feelings and facts (let the emotions pass first, calm down). Avoid saying or doing things that hurt the other person, as that doesn't help the development of the facts.

2️⃣ Use your talents to develop yourself. Everyone's personality can be utilized; if used well, it becomes your weapon for turning things around.

For example, if you're sensitive to information, build your own information acquisition system to catch the latest market trends in real-time.

For example, if you like to dig into others' secrets, channel that energy into researching projects and becoming an industry expert.

More thoughts to come later.

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