I have a friend who grew his account from 1500U all the way to 23,000U in four months, a 15x increase. Then I deleted him.



It's not that he wasn't earning enough, but that he forgot how he survived in the first place.

When we first met, he was day-trading DOGE and chasing MEME coins, hitting margin calls three times in two days, even risking his rent money. I didn’t teach him candlestick patterns or technical analysis, just gave him three hard rules. And guess what—over four months, his account grew 15 times.

**Rule One: Money must be treated as life.**

I split the 1500U into three parts. For intraday trades, take small profits—close immediately after 5% gain; for swing trades, wait for the right setup before entering; don’t touch the price if it’s not right; lock in the core position and don’t touch it even if everything collapses. At first, he thought this was too slow. Until the day a colleague wiped out his entire position in 10 minutes, he finally learned to split his positions. That moment, he realized—slowness is actually a way to avoid dying.

**Rule Two: Only trade the main trend; avoid sideways markets.**

I told him one thing: 70% of the market is trash—don’t risk your life for it. He saw ADA sideways for a week and was eager to jump in. I replied with two words—“wait for volume.” The next day, a big bullish volume candle appeared, and he made an 18% profit. That’s when he understood—doing nothing is the real skill. When his profits exceeded 15%, I told him to withdraw one-third. Seeing the money in his account felt more real than any candlestick.

**Rule Three: The system is tougher than life.**

Set stop-loss at 3%, close the position when it hits the line; once profit reaches 8%, raise the stop-loss to breakeven. Once, he almost impulsively tried to cancel his stop-loss; I showed him a screenshot of his previous liquidation. That night, LTC dropped 12%, but he only lost 1%. That’s when he understood—stop-loss isn’t about giving up, it’s about survival.

But when his account surpassed 20,000U, things changed.

He started shouting in chat groups, going all-in with leverage on MEME coins, mocking others for being “too timid.” As a result, his assets were halved. At dawn, he sent a message: “Bro, if I had kept full position, I’d be at 50,000 by now.”

I looked back at his previous words: “Thanks, bro, for teaching me risk control,” and suddenly understood.

The market doesn’t wipe out the poor; it only eliminates unregulated gamblers.

Before I deleted him, I left him with one sentence: Going from 1500 to 23,000 is about rules, not market conditions. The system keeps you alive; arrogance will kill you. It’s fun to indulge sometimes, but discipline is what will keep you alive for a lifetime.
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CoinBasedThinkingvip
· 1h ago
This guy's words really hit home. When you have too much money, you get arrogant, and rules become a joke... In the end, getting your assets cut in half is deserved.
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OnchainDetectivevip
· 12-13 11:48
Wait, I need to sort out this trading pattern... From 1500U to 23,000, a 15x turnaround in four months, then suddenly halved? The flow of funds here looks a bit suspicious. Based on on-chain data tracking logic, the phase where he strictly followed three rules shows that the trading pattern was clearly a genuine capital preservation operation—diversification, stop-loss, waiting for the main upward wave, a typical stable winner characteristic. But at the critical point of 20,000U, suddenly going all-in with leverage to chase MEME? This shift is too abrupt. Interestingly, this is actually a suspicious switch in the mental account—early "thank you for guidance" turning into later "regret for not going all-in," a clear case of self-deception. It’s not that the market changed; human greed modes have been activated. So, based on my analysis and judgment, what we really need to guard against isn’t the market itself, but the hidden psychological turning point.
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JustHereForAirdropsvip
· 12-13 11:40
Another one who gets carried away after making money, a typical survivor bias.
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TxFailedvip
· 12-13 11:28
honestly the saddest part isn't the loss, it's watching someone forget the exact moment they almost died. dude went from "thank you for teaching me risk management" to full leverage meme chasing in what, two weeks? that's not greed, that's amnesia. the market didn't change, his stop loss did.
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