Qingming sends love to the elderly in the village by giving them zongzi and cool jelly, with each person receiving a bucket of oil.

The elders happily took their shares, but one elderly person was angry and refused to leave.
The elderly woman asked me, “This isn’t fair. Why isn’t my son included? If my son doesn’t get a share, I don’t want mine either.”
I said, “Ma’am, your son is neither an elderly person nor a needy individual. These gifts are meant to show care for the elderly, to help them feel warmth and concern from others.”
The elderly woman said, “My son has no job and no income. Why shouldn’t we help him?”
An older man nearby said, “Your son lies around the house all day. Do you have the nerve to say that? If it were me, I wouldn’t give you this share either. You’re ungrateful. Forget it, I’ll take it back. These are bought with my money, and they don’t owe you anything. Get that through your head.”
The older man stepped forward to snatch the items from the elderly woman’s hands, frightening her into hurriedly leaving with her things.