Some people say Chinese men have a hard time finding women abroad, but it seems easier domestically. In my opinion, it comes down to image and personal caliber—if those aren't up to par, it's difficult anywhere; if they are, it's easy everywhere.

I have a friend who went to America. He used to be pretty overweight back in China, and this guy loves dating around. While others worked their day job, he'd go to the gym, then do food delivery in the afternoon. He hit the gym purely to meet women. He was dating over a dozen women a year, possibly thirty or more—way more than he did back in China.

If he hadn't started working out, he wouldn't have had as much success. Good image, good social skills, and it's easy to date anywhere in the world.