The education we received since childhood

Not to be ashamed to ask questions, there is always a teacher among three people
This saying sounds right
But it actually has a big side effect
It easily erodes self-motivation
And causes one to lose the drive for self-struggle and self-reflection
This is the difference between internal and external factors
One is collectivism
The other is individual heroism
When entering society, you find
That asking others may not necessarily get a response
No one cares whether you are a teacher or not
This has caused many people's confusion
Not knowing how to learn
Lacking self-motivation
As someone said
Feeling like there is no way out and not knowing what to do

If you have experienced countless times of not knowing what to do since childhood
You won't feel lost anymore
So what you need to do: choose for yourself, charge forward yourself, take responsibility yourself, if it feels good, continue; if not, adjust in time.